Hi grandpa.

Today was the first time I had seen my dad cry. 

My dad wanted me to make a portrait of his father. My grandfather who had died before I was born. So I decided to ask my dad questions about him so I could incorporate some of that into the portrait. Suddenly my dad had said, “He died right in front of my eyes.” His voice soon faltered and his eyes glistened over. The glow of the tv reflected off of his welling eyes. He covered his eyes with his hand, his body shaking as he silently sobbed. I stood there for a second, in shock, my own eyes welling up.

This is so hard to write without crying. 

I hurried into the kitchen telling my mother what happened. She rushed over and sat beside him on the couch. My mom whispered sweet things and rubbed circles on my dads shoulder. I just stood there, my arm wrapped around my dad. Tears streaming down my face and blurring my vision. My dads shoulders stopped shaking, The empty silence subtle. The only sound heard was the soft sniffles of both my mother and I. 

My heart swelled at the thought of how much my dad is like my grandfather. Ambitious, cunning, smart, intelligent, kind. My mom says that my dad is like my grandfather and I grew up to be like both my dad and grandfather. Sometimes I think that I don’t deserve that title. I am like no one in my family. I can be selfish and stupid at times. I lack bravery in some tasks. I lack common traits that are needed in a loving daughter and prideful descendant. But one thing is for certain:

I am the proud daughter of my parents, the proud descendent of my grandparents. The proud member of this family. When I think of how blessed I am to have such an amazing family that believe in me. I just think that I need to make them proud. 

One time about a couple weeks ago I was walking across the fied from my house to meet my friends who were near the Spanish class building. Dillon was the only person there and he had his face in his hands. It was pounding rain, both of us were soaking wet. It might have been rain on his face but I swore I saw tears on his pale cheeks. 

“Dillon what’s wrong?” I asked my hand on his heaving shoulder. 

“My backpack, someone stole it and hid it somewhere.” He said his blue-green eyes scanning my face as he spoke to me in the sound of rain accompanying his voice.

“Well then we have to find it.” I said determined to help him.

“ I checked everywhere it could possibly be but it’s no where.” He said his voice miserable.

“We just have to search harder. Look in unlikely places.” I said as I plopped my backpack on a dry spot and took my jacket off. It was soaking wet so it wasn’t like it was gonna keep me warm anyway. 

I walked along the concrete trail with Dillon beside me. His face was stark. I squeezed his wrist reassuringly hoping it would help ease him. He looked at me and nodded before we continued on.

We stopped in front of the large green storage crates that belonged to the school. I honestly don’t know why they have storage crates in the first place but I wasn’t too worried about them at the moment. We went behind the crates where there was a smaller , a dent on the top with rainwater pooling in it. Now here’s the part that made me want to scream. The backpack we were looking for was on top of the humongous storage crate that was twice the size of me. I knew that Dillon had a fear of heights. He eyed the crate like he was going to strike it with lightning any minute. I myself am terrified of heights but at that moment I had to shove my fears in a box, seal it, and throw into a corner of my mind.

“Kanmani you don’t have to do this. We could just tell a teacher or the principal or something and they can find out who did it.” The blonde haired boy looked down a me as I shook my head no.

“Dillon that’s just gonna make everything complicated. Let’s just get your backpack down and go.” 

He nodded. But then I knew he was starting to regret that when I started climbing the smaller crate. The rain was making it hard to keep my  balance with the rain pouring and I was trying hard not to look down. My rain boots started slipping and Dillon had his arms out too catch me if I fell. I reached as much as I could to grab the handle of the backpack. 

Curse my short arms and legs.

I pulled hard on the backpack and my heart pounded in my ears as the backpack fell backwards. My hand discharging quickly so it didn’t tear of from the impact of the heavy backpacks fall. Dillon quickly grabbed his backpack then put his arms back out so I didn’t fall miserably. I closed my eyes and jumped. Two seconds late I was back on the ground with Dillons arms wrapped tightly around me. 

“Thank you thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!” He said hugging me.

“Dillon, I uh, still need to Um, BREATH.” 

Right at that moment I thought “ Grandpa, are you proud of me?”

Every time I do something I want to do so that if my grandfather was still alive he would like it.

I want to be just as awesome as he was. As my dad is. As I would like to be.

Goodnight grandpa.

I love you.

Which is better; Popularity, or dignity?

(sorry for the short post, more content in progress!)

Honestly I don’t understand the concept of popular in schools. Honestly whats the point anyway? There are literal cliques at my school and I don’t know about other schools but it is clear in mine. The eighth and seventh graders mainly. Fancy expensive shoes, dresses that show to much bust and doesn’t cover enough skin, dress just to get dress coded, sneaking there phones into class, cussing as if their mouths can’t produce cleaner words. Those girls with there eyebrows picked to the point where that facial hair looks like something that should have been painted on. So much lip gloss that I honestly think half of them are brain dead.

I have to go to P.E. third period every other day. Therefore that class cuts into my seventh grade lunch so I have to go to eight grade lunch. A bunch of my other friends are in that class as well so I am never ever alone. But the problem is, eight graders always invade our table. To make it even worse, their the eight graders that talk back to the administrators when they get in trouble. Their the eight graders that try to pick fights with sixth graders. There that group that sneak there phones and ditch school.

Yay, lucky us.

Those eight graders just make me want to rip my hair out, grab a sledgehammer, and hit them all with it. I can tell my friends feel the same because the instant those juveniles hit our table we grab our backpacks and just leave. But of course there was that one day where they decided to just barge in and ruin our day;

Me: Hey guys!

My friends: Hey!

Kate: Hey girl!

Dillon: Whats up?!

Thalia: DID YOU SEE THE NEW PERCY JACKSON AND HARRY POTTER FAN ART OH MY FINICKING GODS

Everyone else: . . .

Me: Chill girl! Oh my gods the most amazing thing happe- oh gods, in coming.

Dillon: Here come your walking, talking, sources of irritation.

Everyone: 3…2…1…

Eight graders: YOOOOOOO WASSUP DUDES

I suddenly just feel a tug and I turn and see a bunch of girls wearing crop tops and WAY to much eyeliner holding locks of my hair. They tell me comments like: OH MY GOD YOU SHOULD TOTALLY LIKE DYE YOUR HAIR. or DANG girl those some nice waves you got there. I roll my eyes at them and try to maneuver away. Dillon grabs my shoulders and leads me away from the group of volatile eight graders and we both walk back, dragging our other friends with us.  Without my friends holding me back I swear I would have like done something like knock em all unconscious.

After that day I guess that got bored of us and started torturing other seventh and eight graders.

My friends and I just like to ignore those eight graders as much as we possibly can.

This is what i love so much about my friends, they are so quirky and hilarious, each day coming home from school just thinking about them makes me smile like an idiot. Each of us are so different in so many was but we all just fit together like a huge jigsaw puzzle. Are group is always growing. We’re all diverse too. From race, religion, personality, gender, sexuality. You name it. We’re all that one group that is always laughing about something stupid. Or one of us starts snapping our fingers randomly  and then suddenly we become a band. Stopping our feet, clapping our hands, playing and instrument, singing all together. Its just…. Awesome.

Dillon: *starts snapping fingers*

Me: *sly smile*

Everyone: Aww yeah you go girl!

Dillon: *completely oblivious*

Me: *obnoxious deep breath*

Dillon: Aww yeah! *snaps out beat*

(THESE LYRIC ARE NOT MINE THEY ARE FROM THE AMAZING MUSICAL HAMILTON AND THERE IS NO WAY IN HECK THAT I OWN IT SO YEAH COPYRIGHT AND STUFF ALL RIGHTS BELONG TO LIN MANUEL MIRANDA)

Me: I AM NOT THROWING AWAY MY SHOT

I AM NOT THROWING AWAY MY SHOT

EH YO IM JUST LIKE MAH COUNTRY IM YOUNG SCRAPPY AND HUNGRY AND IM NOT THROWING AWAY MY SHOT

IMMA GET A SCHOLARSHIP TO KINGS COLLEGE I PROBLY SHOULDN’T BRAG BUT DAG I AMAZE AND ASTONISH

THE PROBLEM IS I GOTTA LOTTA BRAINS BUT NO POLISH I GOTTA HOLLER JUST TO BE HEAR WITH EVERY WORD I DROP KNOWLEDGE IMMA DIAMOND IN THE ROUGH A SHINY PIECE OF COLD TRYIN TO REACH MY GOALS MY POWER OF SPEECH UNIMPEACHABLE

ONLY NINETEEN BUT MY MIND IS OLDER THESE NEW YORK CITY STREETS GET COLDER I SHOULDER EVERY BOULDER EVERY DISADVANTAGE I LEARNED TO MANAGED I DONT HAVE A GUN TO  BRANDISH I WALK THESE STREETS FAMISHED

THE PLAN IS TO FAN THIS SPARK INTO A FLAME BUT DANG ITS GETTIN DARK SO LET ME SPELL OUT MY NAME

I AM THE

Everyone else: *joining in* A-L-E-X-A-N-D-E-R  WE ARE MEANT TO BE

ALL OF US TOGETHER: YEAH BOY!

Oh man I love these guys.

I see so many people that I grew up with suddenly just change completely. That one girl that always shared her cookies with me suddenly mocking sixth graders who are too scared to fight back. That one guy who always seemed so bold now trying to hide in the shadows. People who were so innocent suddenly turned unvirtuous. They all started hanging out with the so called populars. There hearts and brains turning dark.

All I want to say to them is:

Do yourself a favor and save your dignity. Keep that little innocence you have in you, find better friends who treat you well, let who you truly are shine through. Feel what its really like to be loved.

What Im trying to say is that there are people out there that are perfect for you. Dont risk hanging out with people that will legitimately hurt you and throw you away and leave you with nothing. Be with the people that make you laugh until you have tears in your eyes, that appreciate you and who you are, accept you for who you are, who are there for you thick and thin, who just make you.

Happy.

I’m not popular

but I have amazing friends.

I’m not rich

but I have everything I need.

I may not be liked

but I know I‘m loved.

Just because I we have a different path doesn’t mean we’re lost.